Sir Someday - Toy Talk

Hello again, time for another installment of Sir Someday, (still working on getting regular Days of writing)  Today I want to talk about toys, tools, and implements of the scene.  Whether you lean towards vanilla or the other end of the spectrum there is a toy or tool for you! HBD and I have a pretty decent collection of the BDSM toys and tools, crops, paddles, clips, etc. as well as vibes and dildos. We are always looking to expand and as our interests and curiosities have increased I expect there to be more purchases and acquisitions.

As the collection expands so does the requirement of discrete storage, as we do not have the ability for a dedicated playroom (yet……. that has been a dream of mine since HBD and I have become an official couple) I ask you the reader to post Ideas and suggestions, right now since we have recently moved and our bedroom is still considered temporary we are using a nondescript cardboard box. In the past, we have used a trunk, a small cabinet, and a built-in armoire. Having adequate space for your collection makes for seamless play because you don’t have to search for just the right thing for the moment or mood.  Having the organization allows for easy cleanup and placement after the scene and for some variety, more than one flogger, paddle, cane, ropes basically whatever turns your crank.

So the future acquisitions, HBD and I have discussed delving deeper into some uncharted (at least for us) toys, like violet wand/ electro stimulation, anal training/butt plugs, fire cupping/ pumping, and more vibes and dildos. These have all come out of our discussions about curiosities and desires to experiment. But now comes the dilemma; how much do you spend? do you go top shelf and hope your curiosity turns into a legitimate kink? Do you go budget and maybe have a diminished experience and kill the kink before it has a chance to develop? Most everything we purchase has to be mail order as we live in a rural area and the only “sex toy” shop is more of a novelty shop of the lower quality. Try before you buy with sex toys is a big taboo and we have no local fellow kinksters to converse with (although we are going to get active on Fetlife). Sex toy review sites I have found (not that I have researched this deeply lately) seem to be a more vanilla slant, vibes, and dildos, toys for vanilla couples or solo play and most of the reviewers are only reviewing what they are able to get sent from a vendor or manufacturer. So again I ask you the readers, how do you decide on what items to buy? Do you have a box full of mistakes, or regrettable purchases?

Thank you for your time again and your feedback. This is Die Tryin signing off again from my dark corner of the internet. Through Love and submission. ~DT