Showing posts with label birthday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label birthday. Show all posts

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Sir Sunday 7-19-09 Waiting is the Hardest Part


Sir Sunday

7-19-09

Waiting is the Hardest Part



To all the music lovers I apologize to you I do not have the voice of our friend Pure Epiphany (be sure to visit her at The Fallacy of Epiphany, unfortunately, you will need to read German) So I will spare you the rendition of me singing “Waiting is the hardest part” by Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
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Tom Petty - The Waiting Lyrics @ LyricsTime.com

Originally I was going to post about what I was going to do when I first meet HBD at the airport, but that has fallen away from my thoughts and I will touch on that later. I have moved to thinking about the future and where we are headed, our situations and circumstances are moving faster than we ever imagined when we first started “playing” as a pair of good friends. She has a roller coaster ride of emotions from her SO and I do too, there is at least one if not 2 moves on the horizon for us in the next 45 days. So with reality looming and life-changing, we are meeting each other for the first time in person, I have no doubts this will be the largest event in either of our lives. When the trip was booked we were so ecstatic and wondering if we could survive the wait, and now in the last 24 hours the waiting is almost unbearable, truly the waiting is the hardest part.

Now I am sure HBD has been fixating on our first meeting with all the usual thoughts and fears, she has shared them with me and I have shared mine with her, as regular readers know there are no secrets between us, it is a truly liberating feeling. So at her request, I am going to share my “vision” of our first meeting at the Airport. We have agreed to meet at a central “landmark” to facilitate ease of finding each other. So here it goes from the vision and mind of Die_Tryin.

As I debark the plane I power up my cell phone and dial the familiar phone number for HBD,. She answers in her sultry tones “Hello Lover, I am waiting for you”, I reply “Hello Love, I am headed to you now”, small talk continues as I clear the security checkpoint and take the escalator to get to the agreed meeting location, “I am going to hide and make you look for me” HBD taunts, showing her bratty side. “are you asking for a spanking later?” I ask, “Yes Sir” she replies. I have been scanning the crowd which is pretty thin due to the late hour. I know what she is wearing, we have discussed it for weeks now and even though I have never seen it I can still see it. I spot her, she has her back to me, arm across her stomach, and cell phone to her ear, I start walking a little quicker and start her talking on a topic that she can talk for a bit on. I approach quietly and as she finishes and asks “so where are you?” A whisper in her ear as I wrap her up in a hug from behind “right here lover”. I loosen my hug to allow her to spin in my arms and face me, we look into each other's eyes and with a smile, we kiss a long, slow, leave the world, kiss. Then we hug harder, then as we separate continue to hold hands, facing each other, speechless and smiling. After a couple of minutes we kiss again, and after we finish she says “ I thought you would never get here”.......... The rest is for later posts

~DT

Monday, June 8, 2009

OMG OMG OMG We did it!!!




I can't believe it! Tonight the tickets were bought that will bring Die_Tryin to me !! Can anyone ask for a better Birthday present than to have the love of their life fly out to spend a fabulous 3 days and nights with them for the FIRST time ever!

To say that I'm excited is an oversimplification of the emotions running through me right now.

So, With this short and sweet post I can't sit still long enough to write I'm going to throw together a count down clock and go enjoy my chat time with DT

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Planning for my birthday....




So, this long-distance thing is for the birds, but let me tell you I wouldn't let go of Die_Tryin for anything. He is the love of my life. Another part of me that I didn't know was missing. But we've both found that we need each other, on levels we never suspected.

We came up with this plan it started out with me looking for flights to the east coast if the need ever arose to get him out of his immediate situation. The flights are amazingly cheap to that area from here. This turned into us talking about a small getaway of me going there to visit him. But with the kids and all the other things I have at home, it's not the easiest thing for me to do.

Wait, wait wait...what if we fly him out here. So, we got to looking and a flight and hotel for him to fly out here and spend a "weekend" is very reasonable. The plan??? to fly him out to me and spend 2 nights with me, WITH ME!!!!!!

So, I'm slightly beside myself happy right now!