I moved out to this awful place when I married my EX. My parents came out to visit every summer for a couple weeks. Then my Dad passed away, and my Mom started coming out alone, she would spend her two weeks with us during the day, and sitting in a hotel every night. Then my Grandmother passes away and my mom started looking for a house closer to me. She found a house on her next visit and bought it before she went back to her home.
Several times I talked about leaving my husband and hinted at staying in my mom's house. After all, it was sitting there empty, and she was showing no signs of moving. Finally, she gave in and let me move in. I've been here for 10 months now. Barely scraping by even though I have a full-time job. Kids are expensive.
Then DT moved out here, he had an apartment for 6 months, of which he only spent 2 at his own place. Before moving in with me. Now I will admit I didn't tell my mother anything about DT moving in. Yes, she knows that DT and I are a couple, that I plan on making him a large part of my life. But she does NOT know that he is living with me. Because she wouldn't approve.
Which leaves me with a bit of a dilemma. If she does move out here, what do I do with DT? Unless business really picks up we can't afford to move. And I don't know that I can live with DT in an apartment again.
I'm thinking I'll take the cowards way out, and just start hinting to her that he's living here before she gets moved. Then just lay it out when we get here, that he's here and well if she really wants him out we'll go from there.
What would you do?
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