When you hear the phrase "forget me not", I'm sure lots of different things come to mind. You might be reminiscent, or think about the flower of that name, I am referring to logon, PWs and keeping them straight while having "alter-egos".
When HBD and I took our break from lifestyle, time marched on, we replaced technology, reloaded operating systems and got new phones. Now some of these Online IDs were easy to recover, and others are proving to be more difficult, HBD had an email account terminated and is unrecoverable, this is causing difficulty accessing and recovering the accounts tied to it. When we started we made sure to separate and "firewall" our Kink from our daily lives, out of necessity, for the size of the community we live in it needs to be that way. At one point I was keeping a detailed PW list, secured under a locked folder, with a common PW I wasn't changing anytime soon. While it is secure, it wasn't perfect and we have managed to lose a few key PWs including an encrypted partition with lots of images of HBD and our play sessions (the early years) when we had trips away from the kids and her ex was still taking them for his weekends.
So how do you keep the two separate, your kink life from your outward-facing life? This is the question that more than likely vexes most of us that are not fortunate enough to have kink-friendly lives. We are working to recover these sites and will hopefully succeed, recovering the encrypted partition I hope we can get as well, they were great shots of intimate moments shared. If any of our readers have suggestions please message us or put them in the comments.
Status update, HBD and I are finding ways to work subtle things into our daily lives, it is still evolving and not perfect but I want her to know I am noticing and proud of her, I know I miss some of the nonverbal and verbal cues, but that is, unfortunately, part of my learning process, I am working on being more attuned to what is happening outside of the bedroom, (fortunately that area is a solid part of our relationship, I am in harmony with her needs there most of the time). HBD is an incredibly giving woman in everything she does and I am truly the luckiest Dom to have her and that she has given herself to me, body, mind, and soul.
Thank you again for reading another Sir Sunday edition of Love and Submission.
~DT
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